TubSlug:
I'm always being asked my goal weight, but for me it's more about how my body looks and feels. I know that I can't control where the weight goes, but I have a wish list of body goals. I'll start by sharing one of them here. A lot of my recent weight has gone to my belly. I'm hoping one day it will be big enough to hide my underwear when I'm standing. What are your body goals, real or fantasy? Maybe you'll inspire me ☺️☺️
Back when I was a gainer, I started off with goal weights. This developed into a borderline eating disorder. Once I stopped weighing myself, it was a lot better for me.
Now that I'm a feeder, I have to say it's more fun to focus on the overall shape than it is to hit a specific goal weight. It's a lot less stressful and lets us enjoy things more.
On the flip side, don't get too wrapped up in your body shape. Sometimes, things won't turn out exactly how you want them to. Maybe you were hoping to be bottom-heavy, but everything goes straight to your middle.
Gain if it makes you feel good. Stop when it doesn't. And love yourself through the entire process.